Friday, 11 December 2015

Religion

I apologise for any grammatical errors that you may encounter, i'm just trying to express my thoughts into words and sometimes things get confused in between translation.....


            So as I was attempting to get some last minute swatting done this morning before my exam, I got to thinking about God and religion. From just that one statement I know you’ve already started drawing conclusions about what this post is about….

            When I say I started thinking about religion what I mean was I started to think about how our society views religion in this day and age. I mean, I know personally, sometimes when someone brings up God, I get slightly uncomfortable, and why should I if I consider myself a Christian? No, I’m not ashamed of my beliefs but we’ve become so used to the fact that whenever someone brings up religion…and in this case I’m talking about Christianity, they expect a certain type of reaction from others. Why is it that I should be afraid to tell you my beliefs or even be timid? Nowadays, someone brings up God and they’re forcing their beliefs on you but the moment an atheist starts up about how much they don’t believe in God and how you’re wasting your time and effort by doing that, it’s called freedom of speech and allowing them to express themselves and their beliefs. Like WTF?!? How does that makes sense? How does me telling you about God and his greatness equal bad but you telling me about how God doesn’t exist and the big bang theory or evolution equals freedom of speech.

            And God forbid I decide to invite you to church or share a scripture with you….that’s a whole other side of stink eyes and shade being thrown. And let’s not forget when you start cussing me out about how I shouldn’t be shoving my beliefs down your throat and trying to force you into doing something like read the Bible or pray. Like really? How do you not see that this is just the beginning to a whole other form of bullying? Since when is being a Christian or religious something to be ashamed about? Since when is expressing your beliefs something that needs to be hidden for fear of being attacked? Yes I understand that we’re living in the last days and we’re supposed to expect most of what is happening now but you can’t be preaching about equality and not giving Christians their fair chance of speaking. Or wait, was that only equality among the sexes? Did nothing else matter when you were preaching your heart out about how everyone should get an equal opportunity in all walks of life.

            Though I like to consider myself a Christian, I’ll be the first to admit I’m not perfect and neither are you. Everyone has their flaws and overtime we just have to grow to accept them but let’s not be hasty to generalise all Christians as pushing their beliefs on someone and therefore attacking them just like how we like to generalise all feminists as being aggressive(that’s a whole other topic for discussion) for example.
        
    Let’s just all learn to love, learn and live

Xoxo

:)

Thursday, 12 November 2015

Toxic People

This was mainly a rant to be honest but maybe, just maybe you'll be able to make sense of it with its grammatical errors...

You see, after a certain incident, now more than ever I’ve come to the realisation that certain people need to be cut out of your life. No matter how much you think that they’ve been there for you or that they’ll change, they probably won’t. Stop telling yourself that it’s ok, you’ve known them for how much not years. CUT THEM OFF. It really isn’t healthy for you and they need to realise that what they’re doing is wrong and they can’t continue to treat you in ways that you think is unacceptable.

            The worst part is when you realise that this person isn’t even doing this for a specific agenda but that their behaviour is just a part of their character. That is the worst. When the person honestly doesn’t see anything wrong with what they’re doing. Walk away. It may sound selfish but save yourself. Now more than ever, when talking about some people I realise I don’t like the person that I have become in those times. And I don’t think people should be subjected to me when I get that upset and my personality just seems so ugly. No one should have to be treated like that, and you shouldn’t treat people like that either. It isn’t right

            Why is it that certain people fail to realise that their behaviour and character is ugly. Straight up ugly and unacceptable. It especially hurts when you see where this person is coming from and you know how hard their parents try with them and how kind hearted their parents are and then they just basically disgrace their parents. They bring shame to their name. As Mushu from Mulan would say, ‘Dishonour on your whole family. Dishonour on you, dishonour on your cow.’

            As one of my friends would say, it’s time to get your shit together and realise who in your life is needed. Differentiate the leaves from the branches and the branches from the roots. Realise that the roots will always be there, rain, sunshine, snow, it doesn’t matter. Those are the people that you keep around for life. Realise that everyone else may come and go. But no matter what, remember that everyone that has come into your life is there for a purpose and to teach you something in life. Learn from your past mistakes and take a stand. Don’t take any type of behaviour from people, remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and you too should treat others with respect.

Xoxo

:)

Friday, 6 November 2015

Voting

I apologise in advance for the grammatical errors that may pop up. i actually attempted to at least glance through it but some may have slipped me, but do enjoy....


So, nowadays, everyone is a part of a Whatsapp group, and sure that’s convenient for most things but it’s also annoying and so for the most part people have now put their Whatsapp groups on mute. Personally, I don’t mute them, but I don’t talk in them either….not that I’m in as many as some persons because 20 Whatsapp groups is just ridiculous. But the few that I am in rarely hear from me, however I read all the messages….or I at least try to. So the other night they sent a message in the group speaking about how the opposition leader was on campus and on another hall. I really didn’t see the big deal because even though I try to keep up to date about what’s going on in my country, I’m pretty much out of touch.

               What did get my attention in the group was when persons started saying that they’d vote for this person IF they basically paid for their vote. And at first it was a joke but then, at least to me, it seems that one of the persons were serious. They even had the nerve to say that preference would be given to whoever gave them the most money in order for them to vote since all of them were the same anyways.

               Now last time I checked it was illegal to buy votes, if not illegal then at least morally wrong. And when things like this are constantly being done I don’t understand how you expect the country to be any better. You complain, and complain, and complain but yet you’re still a part of the problem! I DON’T GET IT! How do you expect things to change then? Personally out of principle, if you’re trying to buy my vote then no, I’m not voting for you because what kind of politics are you really looking at? Obviously you’re not looking out for my interest because all you want are votes to win. You don’t really care.

               Now, I also know that a good amount of ‘young people’ nowadays also ask the question ‘why vote when I don’t see anyone that I want to represent me?’ and I honestly don’t have the answer to that because I’m asking the same question because it has just really occurred to me that I’m at the legal age for voting in my country and not once did it ever really occur to me to vote or even get a national ID. So if you have the answer to that question, then please pass on the knowledge but what I do suggest is not to give away your vote just becayse someone giving you money to last you the most a week. Short term plans will not help us as a country in the long run, so let us try our best to make the right decisions.

Xoxo

:)

Sunday, 5 July 2015

The Free the Nipple Movement

Now it's not the best in grammar, but they are my thoughts, however jumbled they may seem

Free the Nipple movement

So while I was supposed to be finishing up an essay for a class, I was on twitter and saw a tweet that I guy posted about the whole free the nipple. He said that he thought it was just for attention seeking hoes(whether he was joking or not has yet to be determined). Now as a person who doesn’t take everything seriously, I really wondered what he was talking about. So, I decided, instead of doing school work to google the free nipple movement, and what I found was interesting.

            So apparently what’s happening is because of this lady who wasn’t allowed to post a picture on Instagram with a jacket of two topless ladies on the back or with her wearing a sheer top (I’m assuming that she wasn’t wearing anything underneath). And so she then decided to walk around new York city topless and document her journey on twitter. Persons of the movement claim that even though it is legal for a male or female to not wear a top (or bra) in public in certain states, a female will draw more stares than a male. They also state that in the 1930s males had the same problem but they fought against it and now it is accepted as the norm for them however for a female she is more likely looked down on. Apparently it also involves breastfeeding, which apparently isn’t legal in some ways in certain states.

            This all got me thinking, and to be honest after researching this, I’m still not sure how I feel about the whole thing. Personally, I don’t think I’d do it but at the same time when I look at why I would never do it, one would be because it’s not accepted in society, another would be that I am just not that comfortable with my body or nakedness on a whole. And why is that? Society once again. Though we can chalk it up to sexualising women, the same thing happens to men. You can’t tell me that as a woman you don’t look at a topless guy and imagine all kinds of things, it’s just more accepted than a woman. Another thing came to mind, those who state that us females aren’t sexual objects but if you are a part of this movement, that’s exactly what most guys are going to see you as. And I’m not saying this is right but it is what’s going to happen. And though we may want to change this, it will take a while, years or even decades because what is the norm now, will take a while to change.

            In some cases I feel, if you don’t want to wear a top, that’s all on you, at the same time I don’t necessarily want to see it but I also don’t necessarily want to see a lot of things either. I think what needs to be done is taking it step by step. First start with the beach and breastfeeding. Because it is true, a female’s nipples, even on tv will be blurred out while a male’s are left alone. Why is that? Why is it that as a mother, you are unable or afraid to breastfeed your child in public because you might let your nipple be seen by the persons who take it upon themselves to actually look at you while you’re minding your own business. I’m not saying that everyone has to breastfeed their baby in public and use nothing to cover them but you choose what you want to do.


            I honestly have mixed feelings about the whole thing but I think the reason most of us don’t want the ‘free the nipple’ movement to even be happening is because we’re uncomfortable with nakedness. All I have to say is, you do you. And as long as no one is being harmed I don’t have a problem….at the moment. I've been informed in the 2 seconds before posting this that it originally started with women and breastfeeding so do your research and go more in debt than i did, cause that's exactly what i plan on doing now...

xoxo
:)

Saturday, 4 July 2015

Fresher's Guide

Basically putting tweets together of what to expect, what to do for you’re first year…I’m in the faculty of science and technology so some might be biased to that but they’re generally for everyone

ü  If you think just because you could handle 8 am classes in high school you can handle it at UWI, think again (I actually learned this one first hand….it’s true)
ü  Tutorials are key. Not just attend them, but do them before going
ü  If you can’t manage the cold, walk with a sweater. Classroom A/C tun up
ü  Read the notice boards and stay in the know
ü  Enjoy university as much as possible.
ü  Don’t walk on the grass (especially Chancellor’s, unless you’re a chancellorite)
ü  Never box yourself in…widen your vision
ü  Love your parents and if you can’t visit them often, at least talk to them…and not just when you need money
ü  There will be soo many different kinds of people with different outlooks, mut ensure that you know yourself
ü  University is your place to shine
ü  Remember the importance of a balanced diet and exercise
ü  Do not miss the bus, the sun is not your friend
ü  Your school fee may double by the time you finish
ü  Even though there’s no dress code, don’t show up like you’re going to a club
ü  Complete community service in first year, after that you won’t have the time
ü  There are days when you feel like giving up. Don’t, it’s not gonna be easy but it’ll be worth it (or at least that what they say)
ü  Most senior man have them woman already, doh make them fool yuh
ü  Don’t be selfish, especially if you live on hall
ü  Try new things but don’t lose yourself
ü  Don’t waste time with people, know when lyming need to stop
ü  If you can, get a job to help take some of the burden off your parents
ü  Make use of the office hours offered by your lecturers
ü  Don’t throw anything away. Keep your payment and exam receipts
ü  Sleep no longer exists
ü  If the name of a course causes other to laugh, start studying from early
ü  Know who’s on the guild representing you
ü  Work hard and play hard
ü  Get involved – join a club, a committee, play sports, join FYE
ü  If you leave something in the library, don’t expect to find it
ü  If you’re gonna live on hall, learn to cook
ü  Hi-Lo is expensive
ü  Don’t miss orientation – it will start you off on a very good note
ü  If you’re going to sas go before it opens, otherwise you’ll be there for a while
ü  Avoid being on academic probation
ü  Keep an open mind, try new paths, discover yourself
ü  Doo all your assignments before time and study a little everyday.
ü  Drink responsibly. Know your limit
ü  Don’t play dominoes outside juici all day everyday
ü  Not every girl you muss look
ü  Time management
ü  Be careful of the company you keep
ü  Make sure you pass all foundation courses
ü  Commuting students, please know about the uwi bus system
ü  University is not ll about partying, make sure your assignments are done  and you’re studying up to date before you party
ü  If you’re a commuter, get attached to a hall
ü  Don’t be afraid to speak to your lecturers
ü  TBA is not a venue, it means to be announced
ü  Don’t tweet when you have an exam you’re not prepared for
ü  Do every single assignment
ü  Make a friend that lives on hall or is a commuter
ü  Don’t be afraid to make new friends
ü  When campus elections take place to be very prepared….to into hiding
ü  UWI Mona hotspot, the worst wifi on campus
ü  Make sure you do the prerequisites for the 2nd and 3rd year courses you want to do
ü  Take notes in class
ü  Do all available past papers at least a week in advance.

Now these do not belong to me….i may have tweaked some a little bit but not by much. If you want to see all the tweets and their respective owners go to twitter and type in the hashtag #FreshersGuide Enjoy university and don’t forget, if you can help it, NO 8AM classes!!!!
Xoxo

:)

Wednesday, 3 June 2015

What it's like

I may have made some grammatical errors cause I'm not an English major and I'm still human, but here are my thoughts on this. But first a video:





I was watching this video and it spoke to me on so many different levels. Sure I’m almost positive I’ve done a post like this before but what’s stopping me from doing it again. In the video these women talk about what it’s like to be a woman at night. And many times I don’t think some guys take us seriously. And the funny thing is it’s always the nice guys, or the ones that most time can never imagine this happening because they’d never do it themselves. And for that, I am truly grateful to know that there are still men around that don’t believe in things like this happening, that it shouldn’t be happening. However, it does

       As a female myself, walking ALONE at night is and forever will be one of the most frightening things that you can do. To me it’s almost like taking risk with your life. Why, some may ask. Because you never know what may happen. Sure, we like to say we’re big and bad and we can take care of ourselves. And for the most part, those of us that say we can, actually can. But what happens when we encounter someone who is so much more physically stronger than us or threatens us with a weapon. What next? No matter what we may say at some point we are weaker. We might not like to admit or even refuse but there comes a point where you have to acknowledge that we are not stronger than some opponent is. And though some of us refuse to say it, others both think it and say it. And many of those are men. Some who take great joy in trying to hurt us or show their dominance over us and the way in which they go about this is what is most frightening. That is what scares us. Not them sitting down and trying to have a logical conversation, no. Them deciding that it is there duty to sneak up on us and attack. That we are the more vulnerable and so we’re easier to attack and get what they want. Whether it be money, items of value or even sex, they decide that they must take it by force and what easier way than to attack a woman who is physically weaker than I am and will most likely not fight back.

       As someone who does not live in the minds of those who choose to do these acts, I honestly cannot say that this is what they think. This is only what I think they would think. If that makes any sense to you. And so I use this as my platform just to speak of this. Some say, you have to take action and I say, that can only get you so far. I go to a university where I stay on an all-female hall and before school was out for the year, we had a self-defence lesson. Many of us were excited because they saw the necessity of this session and we were able to have persons come in and teach us how to defend ourselves when it came to certain situations. For that session, I was truly grateful but after realised, that no matter what we are taught and how much it means to us at the moment it is not until we are put in the situation where we’ll have to use those skills that it truly matters. Many of us hope we’ll never have to, and some don’t. But not all of us are as lucky. Up to last night I stepped out for a few minutes to go buy something and while walking I heard someone behind me and because I was alone, I started walking faster. To be honest with you I became terrified and thought up every possible scenario in my head. I may have overreacted, I don’t know. What I do know is that as a female, I feel more vulnerable going out at night by myself. I can’t speak for males because I honestly don’t know if they go through the same thing but guys always wonder, why girls go to the bathroom together and never by themselves, well maybe that mentality might add to it.
     
  I’m not trying to paint women as weak here, I’m just trying to shed some light on a certain situation, maybe I didn’t bring it across effectively, maybe I did. I don’t know. I’m just typing as these thoughts come along. I hope you were able to either get something from this or even feel like you’re not alone when it comes to certain situations. Either way, I hope this made a difference to someone.

Xoxo

:)

13 Things

I think I posted a video similar to this one some time ago. But yet it never ceases to amaze me what as women we go through. Take a look  

Thursday, 5 March 2015

Valentine's Day - ish

Once again, as usual, I apologise for any grammatical errors which i may make but thank you for still reading anyways

Now Valentines day has come and gone and no Im not about to write a cheesy love post or a sour bitter woman one at that. Im not really about the clichés at this point in the late night at which Im writing this. What I wanted to do was really question those that said there is no such thing as having a good time on valentines day without having a man.

Now Im not a drinker or club goer so for the most part, clubs and alcohol arent my thing. But Ill never forget someone saying to me once that by me not going to a club I wasnt going to be having a good time and it appalled me that they could ever really say that. And I have proved that wrong so many times. Honestly, just getting together with some good friends on ANY night, not just Valentines day/night can show you how much fun you can have. Literally all we did was go  out and eat food, and it was one of the best nights Ive had since coming to university, one of the reasons because I dont go anywhere really, but it was still fun in my eyes and I think thats all that really matters.

Also the other night, my hall decided to have a social and there was karaoke, now, I know it sounds cliché but it actually is pretty fun, especially when with your friends and the whole crowd is feeling the song as much as you are. Get together with real, true friends and see the fun that awaits you, whether it be Valentines day/night, a regular Friday/Saturday night or any other night you just feel like going out(it could even be a night in). Dress up how you want to and have the time of your life just doing simple things and see how much fun youll have. I think thats all I really have to say, for now at least.

Xoxo

:)

Friday, 13 February 2015

ABUSE Part 1

Now, if there are any grammatical errors, in this I do apologise, I woke up and was just writing because I felt like I had a duty to make my views known, so here it is....


Now, about 3 days ago, a girl on my campus was beat up by a guy and since that, people have been outraged at the whole situation and the fact that at the moment it seemed like administration and those above us were sweeping it under the rug as if to say nothing was happening or it wasn’t a big deal. But many people forgot the whole issue and why they should have been outraged. The hall/dorm in which I’m apart of decided to do a silent protest and honestly I do believe that it made a humongous difference. But for how long? My question to you is, how long are we going to turn a blind eye to the things that actually matter? At one point in a discussion with a group of persons, someone said that it wasn’t like it was the first time this was happening on campus or that it happens all the time. Moreover, I don’t know if it saddens or outrages me more at the fact that, this seems to be the norm in our culture where you can easily say, ‘oh this type of thing happens all the time’. I think that is wrong on so many different levels and the mentality of our people need to be taken under serious thought.
          
However one of the things that really hurt was that, the beating took place at one of the well-known halls in our country (island) and many people blame the hall for what happened or are now attaching the stigma that all the guys that live there beat women. How is it that from all of what is happening around you, this is what you’re thinking? Why is it that every one of the guys that live on that hall should be punished from one guys wrong actions. Yes, this guy was from that hall, yes he beat this girl violently to the point of hospitalization but who are you to say that every single guy on that hall is the same? There is nothing to say that and because of this, we need to take a step back and realise the bigger issue. At some point in our protest, we got word that another hall wanted to stand up with us AGAINST the hall that the guy who beat the girl came from. WRONG!!! That was not the point of the silent protest and if that is what you were getting from it, we may have possibly failed to bring across our message that explicitly said that we were against GENDER-BASED VIOLENCE.
          
Another thing that got me thinking and talking to some of my friends was the fact that, many people were outraged because this was happening to a female. Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m all about women empowerment, feminism and the whole equality issues but at the same time, most times we neglect to remember that though in this society we see males as leaders, alpha, strong, etc. that not all males are as strong as we believe or able to withstand or do certain things. And I honestly believe that even though females are being abused and not reporting it, even less males that are being abused are reported because, what is he going to tell the police officer ‘my woman beat me up and I’d like to press charges,’ or ‘I was raped and I’d like to report it,’ Most times these guys are laughed and told either to toughen up, or that no such thing is able to happen. And when the ones brave enough to actually do this and make their issues known and then laughed at, what kind of message does that send to those who weren’t as brave to step up and say the same.
          This will be part one so until next time, Have a good life

Xoxo

:)

Friday, 16 January 2015

100 Questions

I just did this cause I had nothing to do so, here it is


  • 1:Do you sleep with your closet doors open or closed? – At home, hell yeah, on dorm, I don’t even know
  • 2:Do you take the shampoos and conditioner bottles from hotel? – lol do I go to hotels?
  • 3:Do you sleep with your sheets tucked in or out? – tucked in where? To my bed? Yeah, I sleep on top of them and use a comforter (no need to make the bed when doing that)
  • 4:Have you ever stolen a street sign before? – how do you even steal a street sign?!?!
  • 5:Do you like to use post-it notes? – love it
  • 6:Do you cut out coupons but then never use them? – lol do we use coupons in Jamaica? If so, where can I get some?
  • 7:Would you rather be attacked by a big bear or a swarm of a bees? – what kind of question is this?!? Um, bees I guess
  • 8:Do you have freckles? – nope
  • 9:Do you always smile for pictures? – nope
  • 10:What is your biggest pet peeve? – I’m not even sure, I have so many. Maybe when people don’t eat with their mouth closed and you can hear their saliva mixing with their food
  • 11:Do you ever count your steps when you walk? – I always forget but I’ve always wanted to
  • 12:Have you ever been camping? – kind of, I’ve been to a camp but if you mean sleeping under a tent then no
  • 13:How long has it been since you’ve been camping? – since prep school
  • 14:Do you ever dance even if theres no music playing? – lol, yup
  • 15:Do you chew your pens and pencils? – I don’t really chew them, more like they’re just there….in my mouth
  • 16:How many people have you spent time with this week? – define spend time with
  • 17:What size is your bed? – I think queen size, or king. I don’t really know
  • 18:What is your Song of the week? – song of the week? Bang Bang – Jessie J ft Nicki minaj and Ariana Grande
  • 19:Is it okay for guys to wear pink? – why not?
  • 20:Do you still watch cartoons? – eh, sometimes
  • 21:Whats your least favorite movie? – I think it’s the day the world almost came to an end…bad memories with that one
  • 22:Where would you bury hidden treasure if you had some? – now if I told you and have treasure that defeats the purpose now doesn’t it
  • 23:What do you drink with dinner? – lol, water or juice
  • 24:What do you dip a chicken nugget in? – nothing, I hate ketchup and sauces
  • 25:What is your favorite food? – burgers or sub sandwiches
  • 26:What movies could you watch over and over and still love? Mulan, she’s the man
  • 27:Last person you kissed/kissed you? - lol
  • 28:Were you ever a boy/girl scout? – if a girl scout is like brownies in Jamaica then sure
  • 29:Would you ever strip or pose nude in a magazine? – lol, maybe if I had the body….MAYBE (I’m kidding by the way)
  • 30:When was the last time you wrote a letter to someone on paper? – the last time I wrote my best friend a letter cause she said she really wanted one
  • 31:Can you change the oil on a car? – lol, no
  • 32:Ever gotten a speeding ticket? – lol, do I drive?
  • 33:Ever ran out of gas? - lol
  • 34:Favorite kind of sandwich? – as long as it has chicken and cheese in it, I’m happy
  • 35:Best thing to eat for breakfast? – if it’s not cereal, then something with eggs and frankfurters
  • 36:What is your usual bedtime? – what is a bedtime?
  • 37:Are you lazy? – lol, yea
  • 38:When you were a kid, what did you dress up as for Halloween? – I live in Jamaica, we don’t do Halloween
  • 39:What is your Chinese astrological sign? – there are different astrological signs? I’m an Aquarius, is that what you’re asking?
  • 40:How many languages can you speak? – including English? 1
  • 41:Do you have any magazine subscriptions? – lol, doesn’t that cost money
  • 42:Which are better legos or lincoln logs? – I legit only know about legos, so legos it is
  • 43:Are you stubborn? – my mother says I am
  • 44:Who is better…Leno or Letterman? – I don’t even know what you’re asking me
  • 45:Ever watch soap operas? – lol, yeah
  • 46:Are you afraid of heights? – kind of
  • 47:Do you sing in the car? - yup
  • 48:Do you sing in the shower? – actually, no
  • 49:Do you dance in the car? – how do you dance in a car? You mean, wiggle on the seat?
  • 50:Ever used a gun? – lol, no. I’d probably shit my pants
  • 51:Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer? – like when I was 9
  • 52:Do you think musicals are cheesy? – depends on the musical to be honest
  • 53:Is Christmas stressful? – if you’re cooking and actually buying presents then yea
  • 54:Ever eat a pierogi? – a what?
  • 55:Favorite type of fruit pie? – I don’t eat pie
  • 56:Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid? – my mother says a teacher at one point(I don’t remember that) and doctor
  • 57:Do you believe in ghosts? – nope, but in Jamaica they believe in duppy
  • 58:Ever have a Deja-vu feeling? – all the time
  • 59:Take a vitamin daily? – lol, I should
  • 60:Wear slippers? – all the time
  • 61:Wear a bath robe? – if I’m getting ready to go somewhere and putting on make-up
  • 62:What do you wear to bed? – a shirt?
  • 63:First concert? – yet to have one
  • 64:Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart? – Jamaica?
  • 65:Nike or Adidas? – Adidas cause I have a lot of they’re stuff
  • 66:Cheetos Or Fritos? – um, haven’t had any of these in a while, Cheetos cause of the cheese
  • 67:Peanuts or Sunflower seeds? – peanuts all the way
  • 68:Ever hear of the group Tres Bien? - nope
  • 69:Ever take dance lessons? – yeah, ballet when I was younger
  • 70:Is there a profession you picture your future spouse doing? – no, not really as long as he’s doing honest work I’m fine
  • 71:Can you curl your tongue? - yup
  • 72:Ever won a spelling bee? – in prep school when we had to collect money when spelling words for people sure
  • 73:Have you ever cried because you were so happy? - nope
  • 74:Own any record albums? - lol
  • 75:Own a record player? – my dad does
  • 76:Regularly burn incense? - no
  • 77:Ever been in love? – define ‘in love’
  • 78:Who would you like to see in concert? – oh the list could go on but I’ll give two…beyonce and john legend,
  • 79:What was the last concert you saw? - ….refer to #63
  • 80:Hot tea or cold tea? – how about warm tea?
  • 81:Tea or coffee? – tea, I actually hate the smell of coffee
  • 82:Sugar or snickerdoodles? – I’ve never had a snickerdoodle so I don’t know
  • 83:Can you swim well? – lol, no
  • 84:Can you hold your breath without holding your nose? – can’t everybody
  • 85:Are you patient? – depends on the situation
  • 86:DJ or band, at a wedding? – definitely band
  • 87:Ever won a contest? – lol, no
  • 88:Ever have plastic surgery? – with what money?
  • 89:Which are better black or green olives? – ew, olives
  • 90:Can you knit or crochet? – I can actually crochet
  • 91:Best room for a fireplace? – living room
  • 92:Do you want to get married? - yeah
  • 93:If married, how long have you been married? – not married
  • 94:Who was your HS crush? – let’s not go there
  • 95:Do you cry and throw a fit until you get your own way? – if I did my parents would beat my ass
  • 96:Do you have kids? – L-O-L
  • 97:Do you want kids? – I have yet to find a good reason for wanting them other than they’re cute when they can’t talk
  • 98:Whats your favorite color? - green
  • 99. Something that happened to you in middle school. – you mean high school?
  • 100:Do you miss anyone right now? - forever missing someone


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