I apologize in advance for any grammatical errors I might
have
A couple of friends and I were talking today and it kind
of amazed me how differently males and females think.. And I’m not even talking about the
obvious differences. I thought, sure, we have certain things that we all think
differently about but my gosh, it’s
such a wide gap.
Take the topic of females cooking. One of the guys said,
well we fix the cars, mow the lawn, etc so why can’t you do the cooking washing
and cleaning. A girl replied by saying, ‘well
nobody asked you to, I can get a gardener and a mechanic.’ One person pointed out that
back in the old days, males and females used to share for example the cooking. So
the woman can cook tonight and the man the next. That is something I’m totally agreeable with but
don’t comment in a conversation
like this about how girls nowadays aren’t
willing to cook. No, get it right, some of us are willing BUT it’s likely that if we do, you’ll take advantage of it and demand
that we cook every night and I am not about that life.
Sharing responsibilities is something that I expect with every relationship, me taking on the bulk of the work or even ‘the house work’ because I’m female is not going to be an excuse for you to ‘fix’ the car every 5 years or mow the lawn every few weeks. No it doesn’t work like that. You enter into relationship with rights, and during that relationship, the rights must not automatically disappear. And why is it that nowadays, all I ever hear is is ‘if you don’t feed your man he’ll either cheat or leave’. So what you’re telling me is that basically, if I don’t cook every night wash and clean, that my man will leave? Nah, if he’s really that small minded, I’d like to know why were married to begin with. He needs to know, memorise and learn the word SHARE!
Another thing that came up was the whole divorce and marrying for money. Now, I’m not going to lie, most of us girls want a man with money. Why? Because we’re high maintenance. There’s no way of going around that, we are (and any girl that tells you otherwise is lying). There is at least one thing in this world that we will spend a lot of money on and be over joyed. And with that one thing or those things, we don’t want to feel guilty that we’re going to have to starve for the rest of the month. So when we say we want a man with money, yes we’re telling the truth, but most of us won’t only marry for money. Personality actually does matter because if you have money but you’re mean as hell and want to lift your hand against me, I’m dropping you faster than you can say hot pocket.
Also, no matter how you try to pretty it up, looks do matter. If a girl thinks you’re ugly, then she thinks you’re ugly. She should give you a chance because, you may never know they could be the sweetest person you’ll ever meet, but let’s not all kid ourselves by saying looks don’t matter. Especially with guys. You guys always have something specific that you like about girls and if she’s ugly you probably won’t ever look in her direction.
As I was saying, though. I hear a lot of girls say, they want to marry a rich man, but if things go south, they’re taking at least half of his money, but if they go into a relationship and they’re earning more money than him, they want a prenup. Well, I look at it like this, if you marry a rich man and he cheats and you want a divorce, you’re entitled to at least half of everything. Simple as that. But if you cheat and want a divorce, keep yourself quiet and take what you get (if you get anything) ‘cause you’re in the wrong. Now, I was trying to explain to my friends that the only reason, I’d ask for my future husband to sign a prenup, is if I really loved him, he had no money and no ambition. I mean, come on. Love is nice and all but you have to have ambition. Now if I loved him, he had no money but he had ambition and was working towards a successful goal then fine, no prenup but you have to be realistic if you enter into a relationship with a whole heap of money. So many people get screwed over just because of blind love. If the fact that I’m marrying you and you have no money or ambition, I must love you a whole heap to begin with but prenup it shall be. But if I can see that you actually plan on doing something with your life then fine. We can work together.
Well, comment if you want…which
you probably won’t…and
tell me what you think about the whole thing
